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  • whisper
    Legend
    • Mar 2020
    • 9423

    Originally posted by WindyCitySteel
    He was never accused of assault.
    And these women who accused DW of assault and went back to provide the same service two and three times???? Yea, OK, there.

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    • Bawb the Revelator
      Pro Bowler
      • Jan 2022
      • 1975

      Originally posted by WindyCitySteel
      If this was all a big conspiracy it would be easy to prove and he wouldn't have settled out of court. It's not a "happy ending" if the therapist isn't a willing participant - it's sexual assault.
      Whisper's dead right. Roger's trying to hang this **** 100 percent on DeSean. DeSean's dumb and possibly a perv but that leaves out DeSean's enablers - meaning the Oiler McNair family and they're just bright enough to notice the Browns' owner is an even bigger ass wipe than they are

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      • Eich
        Legend
        • Jul 2010
        • 7030

        Originally posted by whisper
        And these women who accused DW of assault and went back to provide the same service two and three times???? Yea, OK, there.
        I agree. I think there's blame on both sides here. Clearly Watson was out of line in the way he was contacting so many therapists and putting them in the position of having to deal with the sexual requests. From what I've read so far, my guess is that he was polite about it but it was still unwanted. Yet, at least some of the women went back for more after the first encounter.

        The sheer numbers is what really makes it bad for Watson. I don't think he ever physically abused anyone but he was clearly inappropriate more than enough times. At the first sight of his inappropriate behavior, any of these women could have just walked out. But after the volume of accusations, it made it easy for all the women he visited to come after him for money, even if they didn't have a big problem with it at the time of the massages.

        I just don't get why a guy like him would take this approach with women. He's a young, filthy rich athlete. He can have pretty much any women he wants, consensually. Why go after happy endings like that? Just odd.

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        • feltdizz
          Legend
          • May 2008
          • 27482

          Originally posted by Eich
          I agree. I think there's blame on both sides here. Clearly Watson was out of line in the way he was contacting so many therapists and putting them in the position of having to deal with the sexual requests. From what I've read so far, my guess is that he was polite about it but it was still unwanted. Yet, at least some of the women went back for more after the first encounter.

          The sheer numbers is what really makes it bad for Watson. I don't think he ever physically abused anyone but he was clearly inappropriate more than enough times. At the first sight of his inappropriate behavior, any of these women could have just walked out. But after the volume of accusations, it made it easy for all the women he visited to come after him for money, even if they didn't have a big problem with it at the time of the massages.

          I just don't get why a guy like him would take this approach with women. He's a young, filthy rich athlete. He can have pretty much any women he wants, consensually. Why go after happy endings like that? Just odd.
          I wonder if the pandemic increased his appetite since a lot of places were shut down.

          Cant go to clubs or social events so what do you do? Scroll instagram all day.

          I have no idea of the timeline so he may just be a freak but I wouldn’t be surprised if his encounters increased due to lockdowns.
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          • WindyCitySteel
            Legend
            • Nov 2011
            • 15675

            Litmus test - if your daughter was a massage therapist, would you like Deshaun making an appt with her?

            Cleveland area therapists are boycotting the Browns.

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            • Eich
              Legend
              • Jul 2010
              • 7030

              Originally posted by WindyCitySteel
              Litmus test - if your daughter was a massage therapist, would you like Deshaun making an appt with her?

              Cleveland area therapists are boycotting the Browns.
              No. But at the same time, if my daughter were a licensed massage therapist, I would expect her to work in a legit place and not look for clients via instagram. And if she did look for clients via instagram, I would expect her to walk out on any client immediately if they did anything remotely inappropriate. And if she's working independently, I would also expect her to inform all clients, in-advance/in-writing, that her service is 100% legit, non-sexual and that inappropriate behavior will not be tolerated.

              I'm guessing that if any of those instagram MT's put it in writing to DW, in-advance, that the sessions are massage-only, absolutely nothing sexual, that he wouldn't have hired them.

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              • feltdizz
                Legend
                • May 2008
                • 27482

                Originally posted by WindyCitySteel
                Litmus test - if your daughter was a massage therapist, would you like Deshaun making an appt with her?

                Cleveland area therapists are boycotting the Browns.
                I have 2 daughters and I don’t fall for the “if it was your daughter” scenario.

                Anyone with women in their lives know they will be approached/pressured to do something sexual whether its on their job or at school/party/etc.. Its just the way of the world. Men try to have sex with women. Always have and always will.

                If we want to be honest, it not just DeShaun.. plenty of no name dudes will try inappropriate things and my job is to teach them to make the right decisions when in those situations.
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                • feltdizz
                  Legend
                  • May 2008
                  • 27482

                  Originally posted by Eich
                  No. But at the same time, if my daughter were a licensed massage therapist, I would expect her to work in a legit place and not look for clients via instagram. And if she did look for clients via instagram, I would expect her to walk out on any client immediately if they did anything remotely inappropriate. And if she's working independently, I would also expect her to inform all clients, in-advance/in-writing, that her service is 100% legit, non-sexual and that inappropriate behavior will not be tolerated.

                  I'm guessing that if any of those instagram MT's put it in writing to DW, in-advance, that the sessions are massage-only, absolutely nothing sexual, that he wouldn't have hired them.
                  I agree with everything but the last paragraph.

                  Guys like DeShaun don’t give a damn about small print. Once they get in the room and get the urge they will try it because closed mouths don’t get fed.

                  Its like people who see a wedding ring and still try to push up on the person. Some people like a challenge.
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                  • whisper
                    Legend
                    • Mar 2020
                    • 9423

                    Originally posted by WindyCitySteel
                    Litmus test - if your daughter was a massage therapist, would you like Deshaun making an appt with her?

                    Cleveland area therapists are boycotting the Browns.
                    That's because there are legit MTs that truly are just about giving massages. Then there are those who are perfectly fine with the "happy ending" way to doing things. I am sure DW sought after the later; were any of the MTs he hired middle aged men? Grandma aged women? I doubt it. It's not like he went looking for MTs who wanted no part of happy endings and then took joy in forcing them to do it. And back to other players and owners: they do it. Where is the outrage?

                    DW is probably a little bit of a freak. OK. As far as I can tell, he hasn't raped anybody. Two grand juries already said there isn't enough evidence of any crimes to pursue that end.

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                    • WindyCitySteel
                      Legend
                      • Nov 2011
                      • 15675

                      Originally posted by whisper
                      That's because there are legit MTs that truly are just about giving massages. Then there are those who are perfectly fine with the "happy ending" way to doing things. I am sure DW sought after the later; were any of the MTs he hired middle aged men? Grandma aged women? I doubt it. It's not like he went looking for MTs who wanted no part of happy endings and then took joy in forcing them to do it. And back to other players and owners: they do it. Where is the outrage?

                      DW is probably a little bit of a freak. OK. As far as I can tell, he hasn't raped anybody. Two grand juries already said there isn't enough evidence of any crimes to pursue that end.
                      Where are the two dozen accusations of sexual assault on other players and owners?

                      This is the part you can't seem to get.

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                      • steeler_fan_in_t.o.
                        Legend
                        • May 2008
                        • 10267

                        Originally posted by feltdizz
                        I have 2 daughters and I don’t fall for the “if it was your daughter” scenario.

                        Anyone with women in their lives know they will be approached/pressured to do something sexual whether its on their job or at school/party/etc.. Its just the way of the world. Men try to have sex with women. Always have and always will.

                        If we want to be honest, it not just DeShaun.. plenty of no name dudes will try inappropriate things and my job is to teach them to make the right decisions when in those situations.
                        Agreed, and not just on this issue. People use the "if you were in these shoes" arguments all the time and it is an emotion based argument without logic.
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                        • Bawb the Revelator
                          Pro Bowler
                          • Jan 2022
                          • 1975

                          Originally posted by steeler_fan_in_t.o.
                          Agreed, and not just on this issue. People use the "if you were in these shoes" arguments all the time and it is an emotion based argument without logic.
                          Agreed. There's the pregnant 10 year old and America's meat and stone Bible Scholars:

                          https://www.aol.com/anti-choice-groups-10-old-192155949.html

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                          • TheRealTazz864
                            Pro Bowler
                            • Jun 2022
                            • 2163

                            Originally posted by feltdizz
                            I wonder if the pandemic increased his appetite since a lot of places were shut down.

                            Cant go to clubs or social events so what do you do? Scroll instagram all day.

                            I have no idea of the timeline so he may just be a freak but I wouldn’t be surprised if his encounters increased due to lockdowns.
                            The laziest excuse one can have.... when in doubt, blame the pandemic.... I can't wait for China to cut everybody a check...

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                            • Bawb the Revelator
                              Pro Bowler
                              • Jan 2022
                              • 1975

                              BTW Hawaii Steel, we got Global Warming while you got this: https://youtu.be/Ww2OIirbmGs

                              Which proves that the 2022 NFL season must go on no matter what.
                              Because the NFL REALLY CARES! Trust The Shield!

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                              • Bawb the Revelator
                                Pro Bowler
                                • Jan 2022
                                • 1975

                                Originally posted by TheRealTazz864
                                The laziest excuse one can have.... when in doubt, blame the pandemic.... I can't wait for China to cut everybody a check...
                                Nah, Tazz. This one was a smidge before your time:
                                https://youtu.be/PaRlW-jz1QQ

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