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  • hawaiiansteel
    Legend
    • May 2008
    • 35648

    Ben Can't escape the deed(s)

    remind me not to renew my SI subscription...


    Wins shouldn't make us forget about Roethlisberger's past actions

    by Ann Killion


    Story Highlights: (or Lowlights, in my opinion)

    Roethlisberger is being deified, standard procedure for championship-winning QBs
    But let's not forget about the disturbing off-field behavior that got him suspended
    Roethlisberger may not have been charged, but his actions were disgusting



    Ben Roethlisberger has led the Steelers to a third Super Bowl, but it's not fair to call him a changed man.

    What's the prism through which you view sports?

    The prism of team colors and city name?

    The singular filter of athletic achievement?

    A window on human interest, finding athletes you feel you can truly root for?

    It's an interesting exploration. Why does one city cheer for its own accused steroid cheat yet degrade an accused visitor? Why do some stay loyal to a team even after it has moved and turned its back on its fan base? Why can you hate one player when he plays across the country and adore him as soon as he signs with your team?

    And why does a person's vile behavior off the field become less relevant the more his team wins?

    That brings us to Ben Roethlisberger, who is leading the Pittsburgh Steelers into the Super Bowl for the third time in his seven-year career. Roethlisberger is being lauded, standard procedure at this time of year for conference championship-winning quarterbacks.
    We're hearing about the obstacles he has overcome, his resilience, his redemption.
    And it's making some of us more than a tad nauseous.

    In case you've forgotten, or would like to gloss it over lest it dampen your guacamole-and-chips plans, Roethlisberger was accused of sexually assaulting a 20-year old college student.

    It's not like this is ancient history, when Roethlisberger was some foolish kid. It happened less than 11 months ago, in Milledgeville, Ga., when Roethlisberger was a 28-year old, two-time Super Bowl winner, who had been accused of rape just 20 months earlier in Nevada.

    And while no charges were filed in either case, a look at the Milledgeville police report, physical evidence and an investigative story by Sports Illustrated leaves no doubt that something awfully repellent happened that night in Georgia.

    The D.A. overseeing Milledgeville (population 18,000) opted not to file charges against Roethlisberger. And the accuser asked to drop charges because, according to her lawyer, "it would be a very intrusive personal experience" for her; the young woman's reputation was already in the process of being trashed.

    OK. But that doesn't mean that something sordid and perhaps criminal didn't take place. The D.A. decided there wasn't enough evidence for an open-and-shut case: the operative word there is enough. The bar in Georgia is quite high in sexual assault cases. And nationally, superstar athletes -- superstar white athletes in particular -- have been given the legal and societal benefit of the doubt forever.

    The justice system of the NFL worked more quickly. Commissioner Roger Goodell suspended Roethlisberger for more than a third of the regular season (and as a result caused him to lose several million dollars of salary), later reducing the suspension from six to four games after Roethlisberger underwent a "comprehensive behavioral evaluation."

    Goodell wrote to Roethlisberger that while he recognized that "the allegations in Georgia were disputed and that they did not result in criminal charges being filed against you," his ruling was because "you are held to a higher standard as an NFL player, and there is nothing about your conduct in Milledgeville that can remotely be described as admirable, responsible or consistent with either the values of the league or the expectations of our fans."

    Since last spring, much of the conversation surrounding the incident is the same deafening, reactive noise that always surrounds these types of accusation in the sports world: that it is simply he said, she said. The young woman is painted in terms of being a gold-digger or a drunken slut.

    My personal observation after several years in the sports world is that grown men tend to be more infatuated with pro athletes than young women are, going to great lengths to protect, excuse and enable them.

    Roethlisberger had a posse of the infatuated men: pals and off-duty police officers acting as bodyguards, who set up and enabled the encounter with the young woman. He also wasn't questioned immediately by police. One police officer later resigned after his unprofessional conduct in the case became public.

    In the months since, the Roethlisberger incident has been casually spoken about in the same breath as the harassment of a female television personality in the Jets locker room and the sexting accusations surrounding Brett Favre. To be clear, sexual harassment shouldn't ever be excused. But neither should it be confused with sexual assault.

    The outrage surrounding Michael Vick continues to be expressed at a higher volume than any talk about the Roethlisberger case. Yet Vick served almost two years in prison for his crimes, paid his dues to society (it should be noted that Vick was tried and convicted and Roethlisberger was not).

    Resilient? That may be the Steelers, who had to play four games without their starting quarterback and went 3-1, but I don't know that it is a useful descriptor of Roethlisberger. A changed man? Who knows, but certainly the loss of millions of dollars is motivation to not act like a Neanderthal in public.

    Redemption? Please. Success on the football field does not make you a better person, though some in the sports media try to frame it that way.

    Roethlisberger's style of play is called "bruising." That is being celebrated by many this week. For others it conjures up details of the evidence -- "bruises, lacerations and bleeding" -- that was found on a 20-year-old, 5-foot-4 college girl last March, after she went to the police and then to the hospital.

    Guess your perspective all depends on what prism you're looking through.

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  • aggiebones
    Pro Bowler
    • Jan 2009
    • 1427

    #2
    Re: Negative SI article about Ben

    "the young woman's reputation was already in the process of being trashed."

    It was pretty easy to trash her rep. She left a dirty trail.

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    • Jigawatts
      Hall of Famer
      • May 2008
      • 2639

      #3
      Re: Negative SI article about Ben

      Check out this piece of garbage scribbled in crayon by Buzz Bissinger.

      "May the Packers break your legs on the first series of downs."

      [url="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2011-01-26/ben-roethlisberger-and-the-nfls-silly-redemption-debate/"]http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and- ... on-debate/[/url]
      sigpic

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      • Crash
        Legend
        • Apr 2009
        • 5008

        #4
        Re: Negative SI article about Ben

        Nice hatchet job by that SI cu*t.

        Too bad she failed to report facts.

        She should be fired.

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        • Discipline of Steel
          Hall of Famer
          • Aug 2008
          • 3882

          #5
          Re: Negative SI article about Ben

          (it should be noted that Vick was tried and convicted and Roethlisberger was not).

          At least it was noted
          sigpic
          Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, hear the lamentations of their women.

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          • SteelAbility
            Pro Bowler
            • Oct 2009
            • 2149

            #6
            Re: Negative SI article about Ben

            Allegation = Guilt.

            That's the take-home message here. I'm guessing this guy isn't posing much of a threat to the great legal minds of our time.

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            • SteelCrazy
              Legend
              • Aug 2008
              • 5049

              #7
              Re: Negative SI article about Ben

              That is disgusting article and I let her know.
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              • rpmpit
                Pro Bowler
                • May 2008
                • 2004

                #8
                Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                Does anyone actually read SI anymore??

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                • Starlifter
                  Legend
                  • May 2008
                  • 5078

                  #9
                  Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                  looking at her photo you would think she (like most of the rest of us) would realize just how important alcohol is to successful mating.

                  and I really don't recall reading too many, if any, posts here defending ben's actions. apparently this reporter has a problem with the bias towards white athletes. I suppose she thinks Inez Sainz is a legitimate reporter who only dresses the way she does because she's discriminately underpaid and can't afford loose clothing.....
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                  • sd steel
                    Starter
                    • May 2008
                    • 912

                    #10
                    Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                    Originally posted by Jigawatts
                    Check out this piece of garbage scribbled in crayon by Buzz Bissinger.

                    "May the Packers break your legs on the first series of downs."

                    [url="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2011-01-26/ben-roethlisberger-and-the-nfls-silly-redemption-debate/"]http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and- ... on-debate/[/url]
                    I am suprised that none of the comments regarding this story make reference to Buzz going to school with Belichek and Ernie Adams. That is where he got the idea to write Friday Night Lights. He is close friends the Belichek* and they go back a long way. I am sure he is privy to how Ernie Adams and Belichek used the videos to beat the Steelers in the past during Spygate. I think the guy realizes that Ben and the Steelers are overtaking his buddies' glory.

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                    • SanAntonioSteelerFan
                      Legend
                      • May 2008
                      • 8361

                      #11
                      Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                      I'm surprised a national magazine published this. I see it's a web article. I don't generally read SI.com - is it very different in the kind of things it publishes compared to the "hard copy" SI magazine? Even though they published an article earlier this year that was fairly negative on Ben, I didn't think it went over the top too much (low expectations for the media).

                      I'm almost to the point where I realize it's hopeless, there's a target on his and the Steelers' backs, and there's nothing much that can be done about it. So, believing that Ben is capable of turning it around (after all, by all accounts, he started out as a nice young man, it's not like he has to make it all up from scratch ) all I can say is ...

                      HERE WE GO, STEELERS!!


                      We got our "6-PACK" - time to work on a CASE!

                      HERE WE GO STEELERS, HERE WE GO!

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                      • Crash
                        Legend
                        • Apr 2009
                        • 5008

                        #12
                        Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                        Buzz also wrote a piece in December how its time to forgive CON Mike Vick.

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                        • Snatch98
                          Pro Bowler
                          • May 2008
                          • 1451

                          #13
                          Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                          Unbelievable and absolutely shameful. Stop at nothing to be controversial I guess and it's not like his image is completely repaired. There are plenty of people in the Pittsburgh area that still can't get behind a Big Ben led Steeler team. Although most of the time it's absolutely clueless, non-football fans with a activist axe to grind (Not that there is anything wrong with activism). A complete and total slander piece if you ask me. The woman should definitely be fired but we all know that article will have copies flying off the shelves.

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                          • Mister Pittsburgh
                            Hall of Famer
                            • Jul 2008
                            • 3674

                            #14
                            Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                            That was a horrible article. She basically says he is guilty of raping an innocent 20 year old college student even though the DA didn't find enough to do anything and most people that night say the chick followed Ben from bar to bar, through 3 bars, ultimately ending up in his back room party.

                            Sounds like she was pretty infatuated with Ben too, not just middle aged men.

                            People also like to lump the two accusations together, but never express the facts from the first incident where the chick was saying she wanted to move to Pgh to be Ben's girlfriend, wanted to have his kids, etc....and these statements are in emails or text messages they have. The first chick also did some weird crap to a married guys wife or something.

                            Once the first incident happened, Ben became a target. All it would take would be a google search from an Iphone for 3 college sorority sisters to come up with a plan to extort money from a big time rich athlete with a 100 million dollar contract. Once the pressure and reality of their actions hit home, the accuser bailed out.

                            I can't wait till this Nevada BS is over. Hopefully Ben tells his side at that point.

                            I mean this lady is saying she believes what this girl said is the truth. Basically picked sides from reading the evidence a DA couldn't even press charges from.

                            Anyway, here is her twitter account with a bunch of moron sheep writing to her saying boo Ben the rapist.

                            [url="https://twitter.com/annkillion"]https://twitter.com/annkillion[/url]
                            @_Hellgrammite

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                            • ColumbusSteelerFan
                              Backup
                              • May 2008
                              • 388

                              #15
                              Re: Negative SI article about Ben

                              Originally posted by SteelAbility
                              Allegation = Guilt.

                              That's the take-home message here. I'm guessing this guy isn't posing much of a threat to the great legal minds of our time.
                              Of course it ALWAYS means guilty, just like the Duke lacrosse team. Oh wait...
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